Ever have that moment when someone says you don't know how it feels to go through "this". And in your mind your listing everything and more that you've gone through and thinking is this person serious? like really?.... I hate when people think they know life better. Don't mind if you compare or say oh yours is harder. but to say straight to my face "oh you don't know what its like". Like I'm sorry you can stop rewind and pause right there cause you don't know my life.
Everyone goes through the same difficulties, problems, situations, etc. in life. The only difference is all of those are happen differently in our lives. So yeah ok you say you something like " I had to deal with a smoking addiction for years, you don't know what that's like". My response " Ok, well I went through major anxiety disorder for years". Both of us went through a hard time. Both went through something that was controlling our life that we were fighting against. You cant tell me I don't know how a hard time like that feels.
Even when it comes to levels of difficulty or pain. Everyone's difficulty or pain levels differently. But that doesn't mean we all haven't felt those same levels.
Think through before you think you know better then someone else.
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