Your life is someone elses.

I don't get why people live their life's the way people tell them to. To me taking someone's advice is always great, and help is a plus. But if your doing everything just for them, what is the benefit for you in life? How does living exactly their life make your life the way you want it? If you had to stress over life wouldn't you want it to be over something that benefits your life or something that you actually want to be doing? Why would you live a life just for their benefits? Its like your their little doll that does all the work for them while they enjoy the benefits. Seems like a waste of life to me. I don't know maybe that's just the way I think. But I think your life should stay your life.