Two faced…..

Its funny how you think you know someone so well, but one day you find out so much you never knew, and your complete view on them changes. You go over everything you knew and blend it with what you find out and you just sit there…speechless….thinking are they really who i thought they are? this can't be true, can it? i never would have thought….. why the secrets? why the hiding?
They become to faced to you. When their with you its that person you know, but the moment they turn around their this new person that is a complete stranger. Ones with hidden lies and secrets.
You go over in your mind the conversations you've had and now think what was true, what was real?
Why the change? why the difference?
And while you just sit there……you wonder.
Will I ever know the truth?
or is all just hidden secrecy.

Crush. love . life….

Its funny how when when we're younger and first feel love, and our parents are saying its not true love. Every ounce of us rebels against them. But when you get older you look back you see that difference. What was in our minds as true love was just simple little crushes, caring i love you's, or teenage drama. Even at the age of 18 i don't think i've even known true love. I've loved deeply, but I dont think true love comes from loving someone just at first.  I think it's something that develops over time, not just a year, but a long time that you've grown to know the person better then anyone, or understand them completely.  I've heard of soul mates but never truly think its possible for everyone. Some people go so far as to taking tests or spending their whole lives trying to find their soul mate, but i think those people miss out on a lot of opportunities to be loved. I think everyone needs something different for their lives. Either it be a soul mate or just to be loved and happy. But to say true love right off the bat, I dont think anyone could be truly sure till time passed by. 

"perfection"

So everyday we look at our flaws. In some ways our flaws control us. We dont wear certain clothes, or we wear 10 pounds of makeup, or we hide ourselves. And from personal experience i've stressed over making sure everything is perfect. My hair perfect, my skin perfect, my clothes perfect, my personality perfect. And if anything messed up my so called "perfect" Id freak, id stress, id panic to get it back to my so called "perfect" for fear of judgement, for fear of being made fun of, for fear of being ugly. But then I look at these people out in this world with deformities that they can never get fixed or changed. And i see them standing up in the world, making a difference, inspiring people thats life is not all outer beauty, it doesn't define you. So I look at my small flaws. The fixable ones I should be counting my blessings i have the option to be able to fix them. The non fixable i should look at and realize this is what makes me ME. Perfection is like a demon in our minds. So many people hurt others or hurt themselves over perfection, when we should all love our differences, our true selves. And except people and ourselves for who we are not for how we look. 

Stranger by your side

Its amazing to feel happiness, but deep down inside you know its not going to last long. Few seconds later and the stranger comes back.

Excitement, joy, happiness, enthusiasm are things you watch people feel, but you know you can't. 

You look in the mirror and stare at yourself. Picturing other people and seeing yourself, wondering whats wrong. 

Crying for fear of never feeling so much again. 

Trying so hard to have it all back, but then falling to your knees in disappointment.

Pain and anger overcome you.

Unknown of why.

Unknown of how.

Unknown of this stranger ever leaving your side.

So you sit, and sit some more.

Hoping that one of these times, you're no longer sitting there.

You're out enjoying life once more.

have something

If you gain understanding don't let it go.
If you fall in love don't fall out.
If you get faith don't doubt it.
If you get butterflies imbrace them.
If you gain a strong bond don't break it.
If you fight then fight to get over it.
If there's a bad time look back and realize there's more good times.
If you give them trust then realize they must be pretty special to receive that.
If you fullt give your heart then just be happy it has a loving home.
oh
and
yeah
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If yea like it then you shoulda put a ring on it ;)

light at the end of the tunnel.

Don't let go its finally real.
Don't let go its finally truth.
Don't let go its finally understanding.
Don't let go its not over.
Don't let go there is some hope.
Don't let go there is a light.
Don't let go its no longer alone.
Don't let go for this is finally right...

suffering secrets

Ever have that moment where you realize something doesn't feel right?
Something in your mind just isn't clicking.
This feeling of confusion just stays like a fog in your mind.
Just a few secrets cause all of it.
Not the simple secrets like "I took something from a store", or "you ate all the cookies for the charity".
Secrets that literally make you wonder if your mentally ill.
Lies that seem deeper then earths core.
No matter what their level of importance is, they still sit there haunting your thoughts.
Questions pop up like...has this effected my life....will I ever change....why....is it revenge for something that happened to me...
The questions never end but neither do the lies. They seem to never stop. They grow and grow to hide more and more.
And then realizing is this who you really are? A monster in dark.
And the one thing that holds you trapped in fear is the thought of, if this ever blows up what will there be left, what will change, what will happen, and will recovery and change ever be possibility.....

truth be told

Life isn't all bad.
One day of misery will become one day of perfection.
One lie will turn into one truth.
One heart break will turn into one love.
One death will become one birth.
One failure will soon be one success.
One tear will one day become one smile.
One rainy day will eventually be one sunny day.
One day of stress will one day be one day of peacefulness.
One day of poor will turn to one day of fortune.
One misunderstanding will turn to one lesson.
One care will equal one support.
One dream will be one hope.
But One belief will equal a million things.....

haha are they serious? ......

Ever have that moment when someone says you don't know how it feels to go through "this".  And in your mind your listing everything and more that you've gone through and thinking is this person serious? like really?.... I hate when people think they know life better.  Don't mind if you compare or say oh yours is harder. but to say straight to my face "oh you don't know what its like". Like I'm sorry you can stop rewind and pause right there cause you don't know my life.

Everyone goes through the same difficulties, problems, situations, etc. in life. The only difference is all of those are happen differently in our lives. So yeah ok you say you something like " I had to deal with a smoking addiction for years, you don't know what that's like". My response " Ok, well I went through major anxiety disorder for years".  Both of us went through a hard time. Both went through something that was controlling our life that we were fighting against. You cant tell me I don't know how a hard time like that feels.

Even when it comes to levels of difficulty or pain. Everyone's difficulty or pain levels differently. But that doesn't mean we all haven't felt those same levels.

Think through before you think you know better then someone else.

Your life is someone elses.

I don't get why people live their life's the way people tell them to. To me taking someone's advice is always great, and help is a plus. But if your doing everything just for them, what is the benefit for you in life? How does living exactly their life make your life the way you want it? If you had to stress over life wouldn't you want it to be over something that benefits your life or something that you actually want to be doing? Why would you live a life just for their benefits? Its like your their little doll that does all the work for them while they enjoy the benefits. Seems like a waste of life to me. I don't know maybe that's just the way I think. But I think your life should stay your life.

Lifes Mysteries

Seems like we complain so much. Yet to us it doesn't seem like complaining. It's our way of saying what life is slapping us in the face with.

Seems like we get slapped with a lot. Once we think we understand something, it quickly changes. Once we think we have a problem under control, a new problem appears. Once you feel happy, something always steals that feeling away.

We spend hours and hours trying to find out how to stop all of it. There's two bad ways of that though. 1. most people take the easy way out of life, but never realize what they were feeling is now left on someone else. and 2. there really isn't anyway to stop the way life works. It was designed to be this way. We just have to learn to keep living with it.

It always seems like there's a million days of bad compared to good days. But it's cause we learn to dwell on the bad. The bad actually helps us fight for the good days. Cause those good days are totally worth anything bad day we have to go through.

Life is a test of our strengths and weaknesses. It just matters which one you want to choose.